Why is it an argument that is unfinished turns into a silence which is more harrowing than the arguing?
I am not going to apologise for saying things I do, nor do I think someone else should apologise to me for things they say, let’s face it, things said in the heat of the moment are often true. But, I literally have no idea how to now say what I feel I need to. I then feel like saying it will continue the argument, yet the silence is continuing it anyway???
So we sit in silence, we stew on what was said, and the more we stew the more angry we become and the more hurt we become. Yet, stubbornness in people does not allow you to be the bigger person and end it!
Why is it so hard to say what you feel?